Birthday week just barreled through like a freight train. In fact, things moved so fast that I forgot to enjoy the week between my/boys bday week and Father's Day/husband bday week and here we are right back into celebration mode...which isn't
bad, mind you. It's just really expensive and slightly chaotic.
This was my first birthday in 4 years that I didn't stare at my 40 by 40 list. Perhaps this is because I am so far behind schedule on it this year or maybe it's just because I've just been on autopilot lately. Either way, it deserves a bit of reflection. I just went through a crossed off the two most recent things I accomplished:
#6 Learn to play guitar
I did this! I really did. I'm not a pro or anything, but I learned 7 or 8 chords and could legitimately sit down and play you a song today, which is a LOT more than I could do back in January. (Hopefully you like "Hey Jude" and "Live on Tomorrow") I thought about recording myself playing as proof that I'd accomplished this one (because usually there is some kind of evidence), but I think I left my recording-myself-singing-songs phase behind when I was about 11...I can't even imagine if YouTube had existed back then.
#36 Eat at Per Se
My dessert tasting menu experience was so lovely and fun that I think it fulfills this list item. True, when I put this on the list I imagined eating in the main dining room, but I feel like I got just the perfect amount of the Per Se experience without dropping $500 on dinner. (I'm so fiscally responsible!)
Reading through my 40 by 40 list is such a great reminder of how much you can change year-to-year without even realizing. Running a 5K is always the easiest example to use because I literally could not run one mile back when I made this list and now I run two miles as a regular jog and can run a 5K on a moment's notice.
I like #22 too (Learn to make and appreciate a good martini) because dirty martinis are now one of my favorite drinks. I even started a book club that includes drinking martinis! 4 years ago I didn't even know how to order one properly.
This is all to say that I still love my 40 by 40 list even though I haven't been loving blogging much lately. Everything comes in waves, right? So maybe if I ride this one out, I'll re-emerge in a place where I can put blogging back into my routine...if I take all of the trips remaining on my list, I should have plenty to blog about.
In good news, we're taking a step toward #18 (Be debt free) - we finally got our old house back on the market yesterday! That's the house we brought our tiny babies home to 10 years ago, so it's got lots of good memories, but it's also the house we've been saddled with for the past six years while the housing market tanked, so I will be very happy and relieved to sign it over to a new owner. (Fingers crossed)
Off I go, marching into Father's Day and another birthday, and before we know it June will be over. Go smell some flowers or something.